| “My father  attended St Bees School, just 15 miles south of his home in Workington and enjoyed  his time there – even making it to Head Boy - and retained a fondness for the  school for the rest of his life. He played the organ at its chapel services. He  told us how pupils were effectively kicked out for the whole day on regular  occasions to entertain themselves in the open air, and although most headed for  the coast, he used to take his bike and explore the mountains and roads of the northern  lake district - recounting huge journeys across passes where the bike (those  heavy 1940s bikes) had to be carried most of the way. This started his love of  the fells and the mountains that lasted the rest of his life.
 
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            | Although  he received a place at Cambridge to read history, he took a swift about-turn  and decided to become a dentist – deferring national service to go to  Manchester University. This meant that when he did his national service he went  in as a Captain (three pips!) and was sent to Kaduna in Nigeria. Out there he  managed his own dentistry unit, providing care for both the British military  and the local population. He took a camera with him and kept a record of his  time there that he turned into an amazing scrapbook of his experiences - which  seemed to include relatively little dentistry and a lot of R&R!
 When he returned  from Nigeria he needed a job, and got a position as assistant dentist in  Buckingham, thanks to his mother, who took the initiative to ask about possible  positions. Dentistry in those days was very different - I remember him telling  me that during training they were told that buck teeth in a woman were considered attractive so they should not straighten women’s teeth as much as men’s!
 
 
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            | It was  when he was working as a dentist in Buckingham that he met my mother, and they  were married in late 1956 and moved to their first home in Aylesbury, with a semi-feral  cat.  During their long marriage they had  eight dogs, numerous horses, but no more cats.
 Once he  had got sufficient experience, he opened his Aylesbury practice, and in the  late 1970s he left Aylesbury and opened up a Winslow practice after moving to  Stewkley in 1975.
 
 My father  witnessed a total revolution in tooth care and dentistry during his career. At  Manchester he had met Malcolm McGregor, an anaesthetist, who also lived and  worked locally. They worked together at the Friday evening surgery in Aylesbury  and until the late 60s they would have a full book for extractions every  Friday, but within a few years after the introduction of fluoridation the  number of people (and teeth) plummeted to a few every other week as tooth  health improved dramatically. He was always keen to try out new ideas and new  treatments. One of these was the baby bottle warmer – not something you’d see  in many dentists’ surgeries. He’d read that warming injection fluid to blood  temperature made it less painful for the patient. This care for his patients  meant he was greatly respected. He was always an NHS dentist and believed  passionately about the right to free dental care for everyone.
 
 Thirty years  ago he retired from dentistry, but filled his time to capacity once he had  stopped work.
 
 He was a  keen sportsman, He’d started playing rugby at St Bees and continued this by  playing for Aylesbury and Buckingham. He was also, earlier in his life, a good squash  player until his doctor hinted that his regular (minor) injuries were a way of  his body telling him it was time to give up. I also learned that he suffered  hand injuries whilst playing rugby and revived his piano playing as physiotherapy  to get his hands back into working order. He also loved and was a good skier.
 In the  1980s he returned to regular cycling and especially enjoyed the London to Brighton  races which he started joining in 1986. He loved a challenge, and a tough ride  of around 50miles with a killer hill near the end was an achievement he was  rightly proud of. He wasn’t put off by falling off his bike and suffering  concussion, and the last race he cycled was in 2009 – when he was 80! Over the  years the ride might have become slower, and the breaks longer, but one constant  was the final slap up meal when they arrived in Brighton, in Wheelers restaurant,  before the coach journey home.
 
 He also  loved growing vegetables. This started with the large allotment-garden in  Weeden, and then the large plot at Bonham Farm - of which strawberries and  raspberries seemed to dominate. And he had a particular passion for growing  tomatoes.
 
 He loved  cars, and over the years owned several amazing ones. The list includes a  gorgeous E-Type Jaguar, a Triumph, a Lotus Eclat, and a beautiful Panther Lima.  The latter two were unfortunately written off – but not by him!
 
 Another  keen interest was new technology, which included buying a Sinclair ZX80 computer  in the early 80s. Ten years ago he decided he should get another computer and  bought a laptop. He was very quick to pick it up – perhaps a little too quick,  for, within a couple of months he had realised that he could use it to compare  prices and announced that he’d just bought a car online. The car was the Nissan  Duke, his last car.  He then discovered  the iPad and the laptop was discarded. I think it’s fair to say that his  greatest joy was discovering that he could play Sudoku on the iPad.
 
 He had a great sense of humour and Morecombe and Wise was probably  his favourite act (but who doesn’t love them?). Fawlty Towers was another  favourite programme.
  My father had a quick wit; he liked people and people liked him. He had a  full life, a good life, and a long life. We will miss him.”   |